Does Lev. 19:19 invalidate Lev. 19:11 or 19:17? If not, then why would it invalidate any portion of Lev. 18?
Lev. 18 tells us what was done in the land of Canaan, v. 3, “and after the doings of the land of Canaan, whither I bring you, shall ye not do: neither shall ye walk in their ordinances.” This judgment is repeated in v. 24 25, and 27, 28, “Defile not ye yourselves in any of these things: for in all these the nations are defiled which I cast out before you: And the land is defiled: therefore I do visit the iniquity thereof upon it, and the land itself vomiteth out her inhabitants…For all these abominations have the men of the land done, which were before you, and the land is defiled”.
What then follows is a list of wickedness. Within this ‘list’ one finds the phrase, “thou shall not uncover her nakedness”, repeated in verses 7-19. I imagine this is where you get the idea of violent ‘rape’ or a sexual victim? Though “uncovering thy nakedness” has several connotations (H1540), it ought not be limited to rape; otherwise, we are caught in an exegetical predicament of incest possibly being justificable given it is mutually consenting. We also have a further problem to know God’s displeasure with Lot and his daughters.
Another OT idiom is to “lie with”. To “lie with”, in contrast to “uncover thy nakedness”, has no rape connotation, H7901. It simply means to have sexual relations. Of course any sexual relation, either violent or mutually consenting, with an animal is direly sinful. What is interesting is the same idiom, “to lie with”, is likewise used in verse 22, “Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination”. While two different hebrew words are used to explain a sexual liason, that used for homosexual relations has no connotation for violence. It is wrong because like bestaility, it is a ‘confusion’ and ‘corrpution’.
I don’t know how anyone can wiggle out of that. What is at stake is not our individual sense of ‘acceptance’ or ‘value’, but God’s value. Is God holy? Do His people accurately reflect this same Holiness or are they mocking?
That being said, Shawn, I don’t want to see you give up faith. We all fall short the glory. I will say we all deal with sins of flesh, and certainly concupiscence. You rightly point out the many other sexual sins which can be committed inside or outside marriage, hetero or homo. However, ‘two wrongs don’t make a right’. So, it would be wrong to relativize it. The history of the church is not gentle on this one: Christian Tradition (intro) on Homosexuality. Not until renniassance and englightenment did more ‘sex-positive’ attitudes regarding homosexuality (public) emerge, likely the influence of pagan greek. etc.
But regarding united voice of tradition and scripture, I beleive Christ does not hate those who hate sin. Though we may lust for others, we don’t have to act on this same lust. I have many friends, including myself, who are older and past the marriage age. What options do we have? We cannot have sex outside marriage. We shouldnt’ even think about it. Yet the church has always answered the unmarried state with the gift of celibacy. Scripture and tradition both gives a high place to the eunuch. When counseling friends who are struggling singles (men), I always advise them to embrace celibate life and be content with the state we find ourselves in either upon our baptism or ordination, etc. Since homosexuality constitutes an unlawful marriage, I would recommend the same to you as I have myself and friends. Be “a religious” and treat your state of life/condition as a greater blessing. I would not recommend you a discipline any greater than I want myself. Hopefully, someday, by grace, I will love Christ even more than my own life?
My question with SSU in the church is why insist on something forbidden when celibate/religious life could be glorified and elevated instead? This is the proper answer to SSU/identity. Meanwhile, in time, the ‘urges’ are controlled by the Spirit which disciplines the flesh and old man. Not all battles are won overnight, and the hardest battles glorify Christ indeed. Yet if a man burns, then let him marry (Exodus ).
I hope you don’t think I am trying to hurt you. I am just trying to be firm. I would not bring it up if the conversation did not go this way. We are dealing with proper exegesis, faith to tradition, and the scriptural witness. However, given your last post, I felt my own ‘lifestyle’ choice might help you, and I can give you more assistance/prayer if you wish. I know how difficult it is. Frankly, I wish the church was more consistent in its admonitions and counseling against illicit sex of all stripes, especially hetero since this is even more rampant and abused. I believe when the church is lax in general (a sleeping bride?), it gives liscence to all other improprieties.
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